Let go of the notion of helping others and respect the karma of others

Here’s an example: your friend vents to you about all the bad things their partner does. Then you take it seriously and start advising them to break up, or you join in on criticizing their partner. This is called getting involved. What happens if they make up later? Moreover, you can’t have two different kinds of people in the same bed—behind closed doors, they’re still a family, but once the door is closed, you’re the outsider. So, once you get involved in someone else’s karma, you end up carrying their karma. Problems don’t just vanish into thin air; they just get transferred to you